As a man, you want your wife to be happy and content and look forward to coming home to you. You want her to feel sexy and confident and to know without a doubt that she is the woman you want. Too often, as women age and have children, their self-confidence drops. They compare themselves to other women and assume you want someone younger, thinner, or more beautiful. You have to break through that negative self-talk and never let her think or feel that she isn't good enough to be with you or to get your attention anymore. Here are three tips to please your spouse

1. Start slow

Take foreplay to the extreme. Offer to give her a massage; take your time and make it a full-body massage. Before you start the massage, dim the lights, play some music, and warm up the massage oil. Remind her how beautiful you think she is and how much you appreciate her body. Let her know that this isn't about the result, and this isn't about you giving her a turn, so you can get what you want in return. Take your time and make sure she knows she has your undivided attention.

2. Focus on her pleasure

Too often, sex speeds up, and your spouse's pleasure is rushed or takes a back seat because you want some relief. Resist the urge to turn the focus on you. Think about how many times you get a happy ending, but she doesn't. This is your opportunity to show her that you care about her pleasure, and you want her to enjoy your sex life as much as you do. Even if she tries to turn the attention on you, seductively stop her, and remind her you are in charge this time.

Tell her everything you love about her body, and quietly tell her how you want to make her feel. Women are their own worst critics, who always compare themselves to others. If you've been together for several years, if she's gained weight, if she's had children, she may be feeling that you don't find her as beautiful or sexual as you once did. Take the time to remind her and make her believe that you only have eyes for her, and all of her imperfections are part of what makes her sexy.

3. Don't stop

Just because you brought her to orgasm doesn't mean you have to stop. Right after having an orgasm, she is going to be extremely sensitive to even the lightest touch. Gently run your fingers along her skin to send sparks of energy through her body. Take the time to hold her and run your hands over her body. If you didn't give her a massage before, do it now. Take her to the bathroom and slowly bathe her, wash her hair, and then take her back to your bedroom. Show her that you're willing to keep going for as many rounds as it takes for her to be so satisfied and exhausted that she can't move. Bringing her to orgasm repeatedly can be exhilarating for both of you.

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